Before I let go.....

Very often I'm told that she will grow up in the blink of my eyes,
but before I let go of her hand there are some things I will teach her;

~ Your dreams don't have to change just because your surrounding changed,

~ What others do or say is their own decision, it isn't a reflection of you, but their own life and thoughts

~When someone hurts you, it's not because of you, it's because they are sad and hurt, a happy person never puts others down

~ People will not understand your dreams, sometimes not even support you, that means you are succeeding 

~ You are your own best friend, if you don't stand up for yourself, no one will, if you don't have self respect, no one else will, if you don't fight your own battles, no one else will

~ You will meet more fake people in this world than the real and genuine ones, treat everyone the same!

~ Never, ever, ever hold a grudge! That is the biggest prison 

~ Never be jealous of anyone, no matter how good their life may seem, trust me baby, most of them are pretending.  Love and appreciate what you have in front of you

~Never judge a person by their nationality, faith, color of skin, or anything that makes them different than you, but do keep yourself at distance from those who are not on your moral and intellectual level. 

~ Never be afraid to laugh, love or live 

~ Never forget a power of the prayer 

~ A man who loves you will change for you before you know it, the rest are lying to you.

~Always have an older wiser friend

~ Keep yourself surrounded with people who will teach you good and positive things

~Never think that you are too old or too smart to learn anything 

~Maturity is life long process, don't rush it but savor it and use it 

~ Never explain yourself to anyone who doesn't deserve it 

~Those who love you will strive not to hurt you

~ Stay away from dramatic people, they never change or grow up

~Most of the time, look at someone's parents before deciding if you want them in your close circle, crazy parents=crazy kids

~Always keep mentality of a student in life

~ Never reveal someone's secrets, no matter what happens to your relationship with that person

~ Never tell anyone any true secrets about you, they won't be a secret for too long

~ God is the only Forgiving One, people are not 

~Materialistic things come and go, so do people, but your education is the only thing that will travel with you 

~No matter how many times you get hurt, don't be afraid to love again

~ If someone hurts you once, they will do it again. forgive them and move on

~He who loves you, will always stand up for you, even if you are not around

~I gave birth to you to serve no one but God, everyone else can do it themselves, but if someone does nice things for you, return the favor twice as much 

~ Shower your friends with presents whenever you can, without expecting anything in return

~Always be loyal to people in your life, wether they are your friend or not 

~Never stoop to someone else's level only rise up

~Don't let the women in magazines be your role models, look into history books, those are the best role models

~Always know that you are beautiful, but never show that you know, be humble 

~Speak slowly, calmly and softly 

~Never forget to laugh 

~Don't follow the pact, live your own life

~Be different

~Learn as many different languages as you can

~Travel to the foreign land 

~ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS help the less fortunate, even if it's your last dime, give it to them

~Cherish someone's love towards you

~Take care of your health and your body 

~When you decide to marry, make sure that there isn't any doubts in your mind about him and him about you

~Always follow your gut, it's never wrong

~Thank God for everything!~~

~Don't ever be afraid of what's in your heart

~Know that no matter where I am, I am always with you, giving you support, strength and encouragement 

~Never let your job become your life

~Always volunteer 

~It is better to be hated by many bad people and loved by one good true person

~Never let your past destroy your future

~Make a mistake, that's how you learn, but learn from it, don't repeat it

~Find what gives you peace, and follow it 

~Marry at the age that you are ready for it, not the age that everyone else is marrying

~Learn how to cook after you get married, cooking doesn't make you a woman

~Educate yourself as long as you are alive

~Make sure you educate someone else about the things you learn

~Plant a tree, a fruit

~Love the planet Earth, and explore it, it is soooo beautiful 

~Never give up on your dreams because of others, those who love you will accept you for who you are and what you become, others can keep on going, TRUST ME BABY YOU DON'T NEED PEOPLE LIKE THAT IN YOUR LIFE

~Sometimes it's better to drink your coffee alone then with anyone

~Only invite those who you trust into your home 

~Always have honest intentions towards everyone and everything

~People will accuse you of lies and bad intentions, let them, but don't react 

~Stay away from closed minded people

~Stay away from show offs 

~Always start your day with gratitude to God and a smile on your face

~Be respectful to your elders

~Don't argue with the ignorant people

~Ask for advise from multiple people but follow your gut 

~Don't waste your time on those who don't deserve it

~It's better that you break your own heart, then to let someone else break it, you will forgive yourself easier

~Take responsibility for your own actions

~Be polite, even when having a disagreement 

~Never forget the people who helped you

~Keep close family ties, you may not always like all of them, but they do share your blood

~Never let anyone walk over you

~Always look presentable, when you feel your worst, dress your best 

~Sometimes you may have to run before you walk

~Feel the beauty of the raindrop on your face sometimes

~Believe in blessings in disguise 

~No pain, no gain

~Your mother is always right 

~Never be afraid to be who you are 

~Win a battle with yourself before you take on anyone else 

~Mind your own business

~Never start a fight with anyone first, if you are attached, wait for their third strike and punch to make them regret even walking your way ( I hope this never happens to you, but if it does, use it, unless it's a man raising his hand on you, then hit him where it hurts the most before his hand lands on you)

~Learn how to change your own tire, your own oil and battery in your own car

~Never look and be helpless

~Never show where it really hurts

~Never show what makes you upset 

~Don't be afraid to move 

~Keep your morals, vocabulary, education, and happiness very high 

~Walk your own path

and always baby

Pray ........ Love........ and Smile