Words

And when you think you have nothing to offer to anyone in this world,
when you think that you need money or things to make someone's day or life better,
remember that you have the most valuable present that you can offer to anyone,
you have kind words, 
words of advise, 
words of encouragement,
words of love,

Because that is the most valuable present you can give someone, a kind word.
It is something that will live on, after you in this world.

It isn't the smart people that rule the world, it is the people that are smart enough not to let the fear of risks stop them from achieving their dreams       (original write date Nov, 12, 09)

Dear Friend

            Hello My Dear Friend,

Hope you've been well. 

I know we don't have as much time

 as we would like to share together, 

       so I choose to write you this letter.

      I hope you are taking good care of yourself,

 because, my friend,

 this world is a better place because of you. 

                                       Sometimes, you may get caught up with everyday things,                                 sometimes you may not even know what day it is, 

but you do make a difference in this world.

              Each time we speak, you change the world. 

Sometimes just seeing your smile

 or knowing that I've made you smile, 

it makes a change in the world. 

I hope you are taking care of yourself,

 physically, mentally and spiritually,

 because I need you to be all together in case, 

I start falling apart. 

Or if I don't I need you to create more memories with you

to laugh about stupid things,

and to lie to each other just to make ourselves feel better,

I may need you to sometimes tell me the truth

that I don't want to admit,

or be my ear when I have nothing to say.

So take care of yourself my friend,

because no matter how far, or busy we are

You make this world a better place,

and I still need you! 

Labels

                            "Love me, so I can break your heart"
                  
                                           "Trust me, so I can betray you"
                                
                           "Help me, so I can hurt you"
                    
                                        "Be my friend, so I can be your worst enemy"
                        
                      "Save me, so I can destroy you"
                                      
                                     "Be with me, so I can leave you"

                        "Be mine, so I can cheat on you"
                                   
                                    "Care about me, so I can walk all over you"
                           
                            
            No one comes with these labels, and most of the time we cannot see the signs that are given to us, because we create illusions in our head about who the person really is. Learn to recognize the labels before they are revealed to you. 

And just how a tree sheds its leaves
We must shed our bad habits,
Negative influences,
Rotten people,

Unless you eliminate bad there won't be space for good.

Believe my love, winter may be cold and lonely,
But spring always comes after.

Your mind is like a field,  and your ears are the seed for your field.
Even if you don't agree with everything you hear, it still plants a seed in your mind,

Just as you should be careful to what you hear,
be careful to what you may say.

The right kind of change

A man is a man,
No matter how good his mother raised him,
His wife will have to change him,
Change him into a good husband and a father that he can be.

But please dont change his style of music, 
Or his favorite food, or anything that makes 
him a man that you fell in love with.

Please do understand,  a man will change for 
one woman only, his right woman,
And it's not you, let him go.
Dont take offense to you,
Because you my dear will change too,
For one man only.
The right man. 

Own it

If you say you cannot do it, 
You are lying to yourself;

If you say you won't do it,
You are cheating on yourself; 

And if you simply give up,
You are stealing from yourself

You are the only one being truly affected
By not following your dreams and goals.

Your goals, your life, your happiness, 
You are the only ome who controls it.