So many people are obsessed with controlling their surroundings or at least they try to control everything around them except their own mind. The only thing we can control is our mind everything else is out of our control. When that becomes our reality, when we realize that we need to control our mind our thoughts, everything else will become irrelevant and we won't try to control everything else. Happy is the person that can control themselves, instead of trying to control everyone and everything else.