The strong woman in you

To others you may appear weak, 
  but to me you are at your peak 

            You words may not always be perfect
            but you always are direct 

your life hasn't been fair 
but you still have your glare 

                   The challenges that you've faced
           I wish I could have them erased

          You walk so humbly in this world,
"thank you" is your every other word,

So appreciative and so respectful
but yet you are very regretful,

             Your smile is a shinning bean
you are a wonderful human being. 

            Your children are your wealth,
I wish them the best of health,

The strong woman in you my dear,
has always been very clear,
you just had to see 
that God is the only one you should fear,

everything else is life is temporary
and it's not worth your worry,

            The strong woman in you my dear
             Find her, and you will be free!

Your smile is a beautiful gift you have,
that you shouldn't ever stop to share.

For you my friend, I write these words
who knows it may just help heal all the wounds. 

 My whole life, I wanted my voice to be heard,
then I realized it isn't my voice that needs to be heard,

            it's my thoughts that need to be shared,

sometimes the less you speak the more you say.

           Sometimes silence is louder than any words

and sometimes we just have to write about it....

It is very easy to be smart, but the beauty is having wisdom. Wisdom is obtained by real life lesssons. learn from your mistakes,Be wise in your decisions

Whispers of your heart

Listen to the whispers of your heart,
what is it that they are telling you, 

listen very carefully to that feeling
that you have inside of you,

and follow it...

One day you will realize that your heart
is your best guidance, 
your heart is your best advisor, 

but don't forget your mind as well...
when those two work together,
you will find your true happiness.

My New Year

Yet another beautiful morning, 

another beautiful year,

another number added to my life...

Turning a new chapter, 

yet I am so contempt with everything that is in the past.

I wouldn't change a minute of my life,

I was young and dumb when I was suppose to be,

I was naive when I was suppose to be,

I was confused when I was suppose to be,

I realized the value and beauty of life when I was suppose to,

I was madly in love when I was suppose to be,

I was heartbroken when I was suppose to be,

I learned the value of true friends when I was suppose to,

I learned who my true friends when I was suppose to,

I became me, 

When I was suppose to,

I learned to love me,

when I was suppose to,

The most valued lesson I learned is on this page and 

to put it simply,

Pray, Love and Smile :) 

Just like a perfect stone, we must go through changes, experience molding, give ourselves time, accept the hardships, surround ourselves with those that appreciate our value, in order to shine beautifully. Wisdom comes w experience, happiness is a choice

Individuality

As hard as it may sometimes be, always remember that God created us all with our unique gifts. We all have something to offer to this world, to those around us.

As tempting as it may be to want to be something that someone else is, be your own. 
Not everyone is made to be a leader, 
not everyone is made to be a writer,
not everyone is made to be a model,
                            or  a photographer,
       or a teacher,
                           or a counselor,
       or wealthy,
                           or healthy,

but you can choose to be happy with what you have, 
your own individuality,
your own gift,
your own talent,

choose to be you! 
 Embrace your own individuality and share it with those around you!

If you want to make a great difference in the world, Help A Child,

If you want to show your appreciation, feed a child,

if you want to accomplish something of endless value, be a positive influence in a child's life

If you want to fall in love, spend and hour with a child


Some of the greatest accomplishments in my life were accomplished with kids, the youth, and that was before I became a mom.

Life will teach you that what you don't have,
you CAN live without

Smile

If you contribute to the world, the world will contribute to you, and the valuable contribution you can make to the world is a smile. Give a smile today, you never know when you may need one and it comes back to you. Smile 

Words

How you speak is reflection of you,
your personality, your character, your individuality, you are your words. Choose them wisely, speak slowly, because your words have the power to make someone's day and also ruin someone's life. 

Happy Birthday my dear friend

Happy Birthday you wonderful person you,
to all the years of experience and expertise, 

to the wisdom gained through trials,
to the wonderful times you've experienced before,
to amazing friendships that you've created
to finally learning about your body and the help it needs,
to realizing that moments laughing are more precious than moment worrying,
to moments that stole your heart,
to times that you cried from happiness,
to all the wonderful people that came your way,
to knowing how to love with your whole heart,

to always being a true friend,
to never letting our friendship to end,
to remembering what kind of food I don't eat,
for always being very sweet. 

It may be another year added to your calendar,
but to me it means another year of us being wonderful! 

Happy Birthday my dear friend,
simply wonderful you will always be! 

Change....

Just like everything else is life, we have to reorganize our goals and priorities in life.
 What we wanted at the beginning of the year may not be what we need today. 
Always know the difference between what you really need and what you want, because the want is not always the best for you.  
Don't be afraid of the change, changes make you grow.
 Change your priorities, 
change your mind, 
change your vocabulary, 
change your rout on your way to work, 
change the way you speak when something upsets you, 
change how you react to disappointments,
change and you may just discover the new you, the more wonderful you ;) 

The breakdown of Blind

Up to age ten we love our parents and those close in our life,
        ~ These people are the ones that will be our favorite for the rest of our life and we will have fond memories of, most likely the people that we will try to mimic our whole life

From age thirteen to nineteen is most likely when we will have our first love,
            and our first heartbreak, the person that we will most likely base all of our other relationships

Sometimes in our early twenties, we will have that relationship that may last longer, but if we don't grow together, this relationship will end with a heartache.... we think that this person is so perfect for us, we still have that fire in us, we fight for it, we fight with it..... we are sooo blind about it...

Late twenties.... you slowly start to open your eyes and close your heart, you see, you listen, you hear things you haven't heard before, you see things that you didn't see before. That person that you thought was so perfect has suddenly become someone you wouldn't even keep as a friend anymore. You look back and sometimes you laugh at yourself for being so blind and stupid. Then you become contempt with being alone rather than with someone who isn't worth it, You start to love that peace, those quiet mornings.
               
          It is only then that you realize that all the people that you've met in your life have helped you become the person that you are today. The ones that loved you, the ones that hurt you, the ones that left you. And then you wonder if you are still blind or have you finally opened your eyes.

Perception and deception

We perceive what we want to perceive even when someone is trying to deceive,
the image that we have in our head is just that, an image,
the reality is something else.

And we can recognize the difference between the perception and deception we stop being blind

Eat some chocolate girlfriend

When your day starts the wrong way,
and the hair just won't stay,
the rain doesn't seem to want to go away,
and every puddle gets in your way,
Eat some chocolate girlfriend

When your work day seems to never end,
when sugar and coffee just won't blend,
when you want to go shopping but have no money to spend,
Eat some chocolate girlfriend

When a day has been long
and everything that could, went wrong
Eat some chocolate girlfriend

When the bills are coming due,
and you just need to buy that shoe,
Eat some chocolate girlfriend

When your day has been a total success
and you start to worry less
Eat some chocolate girlfriend

It doesn't matter what you may have gone through
and if your dreams are coming true

EAT SOME CHOCOLATE GIRLFRIEND!

It doesn't matter what kind of chocolate you like
dark, milk or white, chocolate is a healing treat
for all your issues it will help you beat

Don't carry the worries of yesterday into today's joys, what was yesterday let it go.

Properly Praying...

When I prayed for strength, I had to move the mountains,
When I prayed for patience, I had to learn to keep quiet,
When I prayed for success, I had failures to overcome,
When I prayed for happiness, I had to overcome the sadness in my heart,
When I learned to stop praying for things, but thanking Him,
I received everything I couldn't even think of praying for.
Now, instead of asking, I simply thank. Not only Him, but every living being.

The biggest battle a person will win is with oneself. Win your mind and you have won everything. Loose the control of your self and you will loose everything. 

So many people are obsessed with controlling their surroundings or at least they try to control everything around them except their own mind. The only thing we can control is our mind everything else is out of our control. When that becomes our reality, when we realize that we need to control our mind our thoughts, everything else will become irrelevant and we won't try to control everything else. Happy is the person that can control themselves, instead of trying to control everyone and everything else.

Always look at someone's actions rather then listen to their words because sometimes their words may be sweet and good for your ears but their actions may be bad for your heart.. Keep your eyes wide open and ears a little shut... 

When it comes to matter of heart, there's no point of chasing anyone. If someone is truly interested they will find a way to be with you, to show you that they are interested, to show you what you mean to them,regardless of their personality. Be loved for what you are, and who you are. Sometimes the wait game is hard but the right person will come along. Just wait........ it is better to be with someone who loves you for who you truly are. 

Speaking when angry ruins the best relationships

Promising when happy creates biggest disappointments  and 

Not resolving an issue with someone you love, creates a lifetime of burdens and issues.

No one should get involved into a relationship without learning how to communicate effectively because love will not always be there, magic will at times disappear, your judgment will change, but good communication will always save the relationship. A good conversation can fix anything. 

Some people and situations are worth the wait and effort, as long as we see some results... sometimes it is worth it to go through the motion and the storm that life gives us, but sometimes we simply have to walk away. We just have to know in our heart who is worth it and who is not. No relationship ever survived with one person being the one that sacrifices everything nor only seeing what we sacrifice. Never resolve any issue evaluating  what you have brought to the relationship, look at what that other person has sacrificed and then look what you did.  Some storms are worth the battle and others we simply have  to walk away. Just make sure you don't walk away from the right one, because in matters of heart, there is no take backs.

Relationships are like the flowers that we plant... you plant the seed today, and you nurture it to grow without seeing any results and then one day just like that blossom it pleasantly surprises you and makes your life more beautiful.... be it your friends, your family or that someone special...

Dear Partner....
When you look for a life partner, choose carefully. Do you want an adventure? Or do you want loyalty and assurance? Choose the person who will show you the way when you are lost and still respect you for the person that you are as a whole, and not judge you for what you are going through. Choose the person who will not shower you with flowers and gifts but a person who will shower you with continuous respect and understanding. That person may not sound like they are from your fairy tale, nor physically be your type, but that person will be the one who will make lifetime easier for both of you. Life is full or adventures, of addictions, of temptations, tests and tortures, you don't have to choose to live with one. Choose someone will be take your hand and face it all together... quietly and calmly..because life, will get loud!  

Find your inner peace, find whatever it is that makes you happy and complete, do whatever you need to get it, and once you do, hold on and never let go

Our past is path to our future, so don't regret it, but also don't repeat it