When you speak, speak selflessly, speak with your mind,
when you love, love selflessly, love with your heart,
when you decide to change, do it fully,
when you decide to leave, don't come back,
when you decide to do something, give it your best and if that's not enough, move on.

Never forget a power of a prayer,
 when nothing else works for you,
 when you have gotten lost, or stuck, 
remember to pray and believe...
and always be thankful for what you do or don't have
 Live to your standards and expectations, not other peoples. 
They don't matter. You matter! You know what makes you happy
 As always pray, love, and smile. 

Be like the flower, no matter what storms come, how hard the rain pours or how cold the winter is, always blossom.. Regroup, and shine :) Be like the flower that you are 

This life we live... it's seems like a circle. We are born, we grow up, we live, we have children, we die. But don't let your life become a circle where you are continuously doing the same thing and making the same mistakes. Make your life a road..... make your own pavements, walk to the beat of your heart. Oh how easy it is to get lost and caught up with other people, but you must stay strong... pull away and walk, build....   go.. never stop going.  While you are here people will care, but once you are gone, you will become forgotten... the greatest of people who are not forgotten after passing away, are those who had a hard life, who suffered, those who made their own pavements, those who left something behind... leave something behind.. leave wisdom, leave love, leave faith behind you and you will live forever. Make your own road...

Blessed is the person whose personality is easy to others, 
who isn't hard to deal with and who no matter what goes on remembers that everything has already been planned out we just have to go through the motion n deal with it.

How to expect reward for not putting hard effort into something?
 How to expect achievement without a goal? 
How to expect happiness without dreams? 
How to expect love without love for yourself? 
How to expect respect without respectfully caring for yourself, your body, your mind, your heart? 
How to expect anything without giving something? 
A road to success isn't easy but its worth it. 

Good people are remembered throughout history, not by their wealth, but by the goodness of their hearts and good deeds. Strive to be a better person with each day, no matter how unfair situations may seem, still do good to others. Speak kindly. You are you, not them. 
Good people leave good people behind them...

Unveiled thoughts : Love what you areI do like structure I do likedis...

Unveiled thoughts : Love what you are
I do like structure I do likedis...: Love what you are I do like structure I do like discipline I do like things to be in order and to be known.  Not necessarily my way...

As I was growing up I always had a signature quote, a motto and it would change as life changed but I've finally found one that can cover it all... 

Pray... because at the end of the day, all humans will disappoint you one way or another. God never will. 
Love... because it doesn't matter how many times you survive a heartbreak at least you were able to love. Love conquers all. 
Smile... its contagious n you never know when you can make someone's day ... :) 
Pray, love n smile they go together.

Love what you are

I do like structure I do like discipline

I do like things to be in order and to be known. 

Not necessarily my way but I like things to be known.

I love mind stimulation, I like to be matched for the things that I offer. 

I am not perfect but I strive for perfection, when given perfection I will give perfection, when I give perfection and receive less disappointment creates anger and anger is nasty. I do not like being angry.

I love my smile, I want to smile all the time. I want to be greeted with a smile. Life is not peaches and cream but I want to have those small beautiful moments that take my breath away.

I do not need a man to fix my car, I do not need a man to build me things, I do not need a man to pay my bills nor to buy me things. I need a man that knows how to touch a woman, I need a man that will make me feel like a queen with his look, I need a man that will listen to my needs, that will understand my mood swings, I am a woman, God created me to be able to cry out of joy and laugh out of hurt. 

He blessed me with a body that can create and carry another body inside. I want to be able to scream when I want to and not be judged for it, I want to be able to laugh when I want to and not be judged for it. God gave me abilities to multitask and carry multiple of hats at one time, all I need is a simple Thank you sometimes. 

A token of appreciation is all that’s needed. A genuine token of appreciation. 

I do not want to be judged on my bad day, it was probably created by a man anyways. I have the ability to rule the world and carry it on my shoulders why the hell cant I have my own crown then?

Sometimes a soft touch and a nice word will do just fine…

I am a woman……….  

Do not fault me for it, do not judge me for it, do not blame me for the things that were given to me by nature, I do like a nice word every now and then, I do want to be treated like a queen that I am to you. I am a woman and I love it… I do not want to be taken for granted for it, I do not want to feel bad for it, I was created with an emotional side that is so hungry, I give and I give and I give, I am ready to receive, I am ready to receive food for my soul for my heart…. My heart is hungry… and it’s the worst hunger anyone can feel.

I am a woman and I love it.

written June 09, 2009

Feed my soul, the way it needs to be fed,

Feed my mind, the way it needs to be fed,

Feed my body, the way it needs to be fed,

Feed my desires, the way they needs to be fed,

Feed my life the way it needs to be fed.

Walk with me in this circle called life,

Walk with me over each rock,

Walk with me through each river,

Swim with me through the oceans,

Dance with me to the slowest song,

Catch my step when I'm about to loose the rhythm,

Dance with me through the fastest beat,

Keep up with me through each move,

Talk to me when there are no words to say,

Listen to me when I have so much to say,

Hold me to make it all go away,

Dance with me and I will dance with you,

Walk with me and I will walk with you,

Talk to me and I will talk to you,

Listen to me and I will listen to you,

Hold on to me and I will hold on to you.

Make me smile and I will smile with you.   

Be a man, take my hand and take me, let's walk the road together

(originally written in March 2010)

Oh what a tangled web we weave ......  how honest are we with each other? Do we present what we think others will like? Even those that claim that are real, how real are they?  Each person we meet is perceived differently by each of us... Form your own opinion of someone by your experience with that person, but always..... always keep your eyes open. Don't look for the things that you want to see, take off your blinds........ Oh what a tangled web we weave....